One of the first things that I’ve learnt from the pick-up community, reading the books of Mystery, Style, and others, was that “Pick Up Lines Don’t Work”. By “Pick-Up Lines”, they actually mean all those lame lines that our friends teach us.
Lame Pick-Up lines, are all those stupid sentences, that men might think are funny and attractive for women, but are definitely out-dated and were used too many times, that they even became a joke:
“Hi, do you come here often?”
“I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away”
“Was there an earthquake, or did you just rock my world?”
“Is you last name Gillette? Cause you’re the best a man can get”
I’m sure you are familiar with those lines, and you probably think they don’t really work. Well, first of all, I agree with you. They are lame.
However, one day, I decided to really check how bad those lines are. So I went out to a club with a friend, and started approaching women using extremely lame lines. I was totally sure women are going to reject me, or even hit me as revenge.
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“Excuse Me, Do You Come Here Often?”
So, my first approach was with 2 girls that I saw chatting and smiling near the bar. I approached them with a cute smile on my face, and simply said “Excuse me girls, do you come her often?”
To my surprise, the girls began laughing, and even responded, something like “are you trying to use a pick up line?”
My line, in fact, created a very funny interaction. They didn’t hate me. They didn’t act bitchy. They didn’t go away from me. They were actually interested.
So I tried it on many other girls during the night, and I didn’t see any bad responses – on the contrary, girls seemed to enjoy my lines.
Lame Lines Are Also Funny
That night was revolutionary to me. I found another kind of conversation openers that were successful with women: it’s using lame pick-up lines that every girl has heard, as a parody.
The purpose of a conversation opener, or a pickup line, is in fact to be interesting and engage the girl in a conversation. And lame lines are perfect for this purpose. They are fun, interesting and make every girl want to respond. They understand that you are joking by using those lines. And it all makes it even more fun.
So the key to use this kind of opener, is to use lines that everybody knows. Those lines that are considered as stupid and lame, are the perfect ones.
Your Body Language and Tonality
One of the main concepts of attracting women is using attractive body language and tonality.
When some shy nerd uses a pick up line, he does it in a certain way. His body is telling the girl “I am sorry to take your precious time”. He isn’t confident in his words. He shows strong neediness. This is very unattractive.
It’s not the line that he uses that makes women reject him. It’s his whole behavior.
The most important lesson that I’ve learned from my night of using lame pick up lines, was that the line you use is not very important. What makes the difference is your body language and tonality.
Be confident and strong in the way you deliver the opener, and it doesn’t really matter what you say.